anger

Anger and what causes it ?
 firstly we are never free of it we just learn to not show it when its not so appropriate .

but the real question is what gets a man to get angry .Ladies dont need to get angry over it as i can only talk bout men and have no idea what makes women angry ! We stand up and speak out for something then find that some people  , whom we were expecting to agree with , not agreeing to us . Does that make us angry . it does most of the times . should it ? May be not but it does . It seems that an argument is just a civilised expression of anger over disagreement . 

What should be allowed to transgress our domestication into making us the beasts we become when we are angry ? Principles , ideologies, ideas our own self centered self congratulatory narcissist attitude which will always make a man feel hurt, snubbed into submission (though in a very civilised manner )